Make Fear Work For You

Harness that fear!

Wouldn’t it be great to know that every time you fear something that could actually mean you are getting ready for your next big win?

 What do you mean Coach Lew? Most of our biggest accomplishments, greatest relationships, wise business decision and the like followed a moment or longer of some sort of fear! 

1) Fear of rejection, what if you ask someone for a date and they said no? Well find someone who says yes because the truth is you would want to be with someone who doesn’t feel the same anyways. If you are happily married or in a committed relationship, look back and remember when you met. Was there a point when you felt fear of saying hello or asking for that date? Sure there was and look at it this way….If you had not passed the fear you would not have this person n your life right now!

 2) Fear of failure, what if you didn’t start the business you’re in today because the fear of failure held you back? What if you didn’t ask a client for their business and today they are the one that gives you most of your paycheck? Are you glad you overcame the fear? You say OK Coach I get that but there was this time where I had this gut feeling and I was right and it saved my life to have fear! Exactly! 

Remember fear is either clear and present danger or a perceived danger which is not actually valid. Fear serves us either way: 

1) An immediate call to action that your safety is at risk

 2) A call that something needs your attention as in the case of over stimulated worry! 

Always remember to use the 5 Second Rule that we talked about the Mel Robbins made famous! I highly suggest get her book The 5 Second Rule as well. Please use my link to order it on Kindle, Audible or Amazon as i am an affiliate of Amazon and as such I do receive a small commission form them when you use my links which helps support our platform! 

My friends this is not always going to be an easy journey but I can’t stress enough that you get one life, this is not a rehearsal for the next go round!  Live you life today like it matters because it does and it is the only one you get! 

With that all said make sure to watch the video, take action today, get some coaching and step up to the life you desire and deserve!

Live with faith, energy, passion and always live your dreams!

-Coach Lew 

Founder XLR8Life University and CoachLew.com